Tuesday, October 23, 2012

The Eagle Pledge...

Recently I have become increasingly worried about the direction that the Scouting movement has been heading. In my previous posts I have challenged the anti-gay view of the BSA and I have become a strong advocate for Equality in Scouting.

I was the first person in my family to obtain the rank of Eagle Scout. Although my father was involved in Scouting and loves it dearly, he will forever be a Life Scout. For me, this was a driving force in my Trail to Eagle. Scouting was always something that I shared with my father. He was involved with my Den when I was a Cub Scout, became an Assistant Scoutmaster when I crossed over, took over as Scoutmaster soon after that, and even attended the 2005 National Jamboree with me as an Assistant Scoutmaster while I served as the Senior Patrol Leader of the only Troop from our council. When I did something that was Scouting related, my dad was always right next to me.

I will never forget the day that I became a Life Scout. I walked out of my Board of Review and got in the car with my dad. "We're equal now" I said to him. "We're both Life Scouts." The next thing that my father said to me will forever be one of my favorite memories of him. "Son, You've already surpassed me." It was at this moment where I believe I made the conscious decision that I would become an Eagle Scout for my father.

I hold great pride in being an Eagle Scout. Not just because it represents things that I accomplished, but because it represents the very best parts of who I am. It represents all of those people that helped me get there. The Trail to Eagle is one that each Scout travels, but he is never alone. Along the way he receives help from fellow Scouts, Leaders, Friends and Family. And although I have said it many times before, to all those who helped me along my Trail, I thank you.

A few weeks back I was proud to learn that I was no longer going to be the only Eagle Scout in my family. My cousin Kevin had passed his Eagle Board of Review and was now, like me, an Eagle Scout. Shortly after leaving my night class I called my cousin to congratulate him on his accomplishment and to welcome him into the ranks. A few days later he messaged me, asking if I would participate in his Eagle Court of Honor. This moment filled me with great pride. I was honored for him to ask me to be a part of one of the most important and fulfilling days of his life.

I have spent the last few days trying to find the exact version of an Eagle Challenge that I want to deliver. My mind was drawn back to not only my Eagle Court of Honor, but also those that I have attended. I felt that I needed to find something that holds true to the very core of what being an Eagle Scout is supposed to exemplify. Something that will truly express the things that make me the most proud to be an Eagle Scout.

In my search I came across the following challenge that in my mind hit the nail right on the head:


The foremost responsibility of an Eagle Scout is to live with honor. To an Eagle Scout, honor is the foundation of all character. He knows that "A Scout is trustworthy" is the very first point of the Scout Law for a good reason. An Eagle Scout lives honorably, not only because honor is important to him but because of the vital significance of the example he sets for other Scouts. Living honorably reflects credit on his home, his church, his troop, and his community. May the white of the Eagle badge remind you to always live with honor.

The second obligation of an Eagle Scout is loyalty. A Scout is true to his family, Scout leaders, friends, school, and nation. His loyalty to his troop and brother Scouts makes him pitch in and carry his share of the load. All of these help to build the loyalty that means devotion to community, to country, to one's own ideals, and to God. Let the blue of the Eagle badge always inspire your loyalty.

The third obligation of an Eagle Scout is to be courageous. Courage has always been a quality by which men measure themselves and others. To a Scout, bravery means not only the courage to face physical danger, but also the determination to stand up for the right. Trusting in God, with faith in his fellowman, he looks forward to each day, seeking his share of the world's work to do. Let the red of the Eagle badge remind you always of courage.

The fourth obligation of an Eagle Scout is to be cheerful. To remind the Eagle Scout to always wear a smile, the redwhite, and blue ribbon is attached to the scroll of the Second Class Scout award, which has its ends turned up in a smile.

The final responsibility of an Eagle Scout is service. The Eagle Scout extends a helping hand to those who still toil up Scouting's trail, just as others helped him in his climb to the Eagle. The performance of the daily Good Turn takes on a new meaning when he enters a more adult life of continuing service to others. The Eagle stands as protector of the weak and helpless. He aids and comforts the unfortunate and the oppressed. He upholds the rights of others while defending his own. He will always "Be Prepared" to put forth his best.

You deserve much credit for having achieved Scouting's highest award. But wear your award with humility, ever mindful that the Eagle Scout is looked up to as an example. May the Scout Oath and the Scout Law be your guide for tomorrow and onward.

Honor, Loyalty, Courage, Cheerfulness and Service. These are qualities that every Scout should hold dear to him and ones the Eagle Scouts should emulate to their fullest potential. Values that I believe Sir Robert Baden Powell would would categorize as defining features of an Eagle Scout. Values that a becoming increasingly hard to find among people these days.

At my Eagle Court of Honor one of my Assistant Scoutmasters explained to me that as an Eagle Scout I am a marked man. That for the rest of my life, people would look to me for advice, leadership and assistance purely because I am an Eagle Scout. This notion has so far played out exactly like he said it would. People often come to me for advice or help with things especially after finding out that I am an Eagle Scout.

As an Eagle Scout it is ones duty to help those after making their way along the Trail to Eagle. I am finding more and more that perhaps this holds true for the organization itself as well. the Scouting movement has lost its way. It has become corrupted by politics and personal views that have no place in Scouting and it is the responsibility of Scouts and Scouters alike to guide the organization back on the Trail.

In a few weeks I will stand up at my cousin Kevin's Eagle Court of Honor and deliver unto him the Eagle Challenge and Charge. I will be the one to say the words "By the power vested in me by the National Court of Honor of the Boy Scouts of America, it is my privilege and pleasure to pronounce you an Eagle Scout." This will be the second Eagle Court of Honor that I have had the honor to speak at in the last year. It is a privilege that for me brings a great amount of Pride in the man that I have become and the fact that people recognize it.

My only hope that as I welcome my cousin into the brotherhood of Eagle Scouts that I welcome him in a way that will inspire him to always live up to the Scout Oath and Law, even if the organization itself has lost its way.

Friday, October 5, 2012

From One Eagle To Another…


Dear Ryan,

I am writing to you today as an Eagle Scout who has earned 3 Eagle Palms, is a Brotherhood member of the Order of the Arrow, and is an 8-year member of Summer Camp Staff including two years as a Program Director. I am writing to let you know that I support you.

Ever since the BSA announced that they would uphold the ban on members of the LGBT Community, I have found it harder and harder to continue to support the organization. It pains me every day to see stories like yours where members of the BSA continue to tarnish the reputation of an organization that I have grown to love. You are obviously a person of very high character, and for that I admire and respect you.

I have had the pleasure of working with a great deal of people in my time in Scouting. Many of these wonderful people have been gay, and those Scouts have often been held in higher regard than many of their straight counterparts. They were in my troop, on Summer Camp Staff with me and have remained good friends of mine even though we have parted ways in our lives. I count these Scouts and Scouters as some of the most important and influential people in my life.

I am writing to you today to let you know that regardless of what your Troop, Council or even National says, regardless of what happens on Monday, in the minds of hundreds of thousands of Scouts, Scouters and other people, you already are an Eagle Scout. Your story will be known as one that inspired many to speak out against discrimination. 

Although you may not have been awarded the rank officially, there is much more to being an Eagle Scout than just a patch, medal or other physical representation. The true representation of an Eagle Scout lies in his character. The way in which he presents his Leadership through his commitment to the values that the Scout Oath and Law have taught him and his ability to stand tall in the face of adversity. 

I have spent a lot of the last few months debating to myself whether or not the BSA is something that I wish to continue to support. More importantly, I worry that when the time comes, it will still be an organization that I want my son to be a part of. As I fight this internal battle I keep reminding myself that if I abandon the organization completely, then the only thing it will accomplish is that the youth involved will lose the influence of someone who supports equality. They will lose a role model that is becoming more and more needed within the organization. This is the only reason that keeps me going.

In closing, I want to take the time to congratulate you on your accomplishments. You have earned the right in my eyes to be considered an Eagle Scout, and as one myself I would consider it an honor if I were to ever meet you in person or hold a conversation with you through any medium. You have accomplished a great many things in your 18 years on this earth and you and your parents should be proud of the young man you have become.

Regardless of what happens I hope that you remember the good things that Scouting has taught you. I hope that you apply them in your daily life and stand next to myself and the many others that will continue to fight for equality within Scouting. Most importantly, I hope that you remember the people within the organization that have supported you always and have helped you in your journey along the Trail to Eagle.

Congratulations again on your accomplishments, and I welcome you with an open heart to the Brotherhood of Eagle Scouts. 

Yours in Scouting,

Dennis N. LoConti Jr.
Eagle Scout
Troop 175, Mentor-On-The-Lake, Ohio
Greater Western Reserve Council